All we think about the future, trying to understand and determine if real other worldly look in a window with anxiety and hope. We live with controversial question on their lips, “What next? Does my way to success? Indeed nobody knows the answer, but all hope and believe. This is our mental support – waiting and anticipation, personal inner dancing with a tambourine over a cup of destiny. And whenever the “signs” converge happens to “sign” and the mind is filled with predictions. That person won something, publicly flashed all fashioned without hesitation – and in my heart joy mind imagining a successful, bright future. And there is a mistake, to stumble, lose and signs with the same realism painted the future of luck.
We probably just did not know how to live without the future, we are not able to understand that very, very do not know him. Therefore, to protect them from the frightening obscurity, are trained to the “magic” the art of prediction of his fate by signs that overall catch and butted in the pattern of the future.
Even the gloomy prediction of the failure is much easier than the total uncertainty of the next moment. Therefore, the unpredictability of tomorrow we will halt the forecasts, in which a pure heart believe. Just about everyone in the head – an armada of criteria by which the mind determines which picture of the future life to stage it for yourself.
The process of divination is carried out with the help of the virtual idol – standard of “correctness”, to which the mind associates with his life.If the comparison is not in favor of life, the gloomy predictions. Such discrepancies with the idol mind calls mistakes and failures.
We do not know either himself or his future in itself is not sure, but one hundred percent sure of the criteria for an abstract “correctness”, which is necessary to comply. “We must be positive. when the mind once again believe in a dark future. And he firmly believes, of course, and “sacred.”
Therefore, logically, even understanding the irrationality of this faith, we will still inkling of the pain unjustified hope – and fear. So try to choose and justify a series of actions that safeguard against “mistakes” – one of the worst “take.” Otherwise, the built-in intelligence will again show horror cinema.
We are afraid of mistakes, because subconsciously we know what we think.
Therefore, in order not to feel the ordinary layman, do not study and do not make mistakes, no one is in a hurry to get out of your comfort zone. There you can easily imagine the joy of playing the role of a tired, know life kitchen thinker. The main thing – do not be put out.
This happens when the sphere seems desirable closed and alien, because there does not come approving invitations. He knows that should fail – and find yourself absurd and ridiculous failure, will point the finger and blame mockingly, they say, “Where are you, jerk?”.
Fear kills bugs desires and deprives forces factories in depressive apathy. This syndrome of learned helplessness, entitled “All the same it will not work” – dramatic work, which the mind itself casts.
We are afraid of mistakes and failures, because we have the fear of bad luck. The successes and errors these are the signs by which a trained mind neurosis determines its own destiny. He seemed to whisper to myself, “Only losers are mistaken.”
I want to say once again, we do not know the future. We’re just guessing. And their predictions individual whose signs smoothly converged, accept the truth, which is embodied in our hope and hopelessness.
While self-esteem and a picture of the future depend on the particular successes and mistakes, they vary as a stock market trend in a crisis economy. And even when the success of the ego swells to gigantic dimensions, act still scared, because every step threatens failure, implying a personal end.
On progressman.ru this irrational mystical mind was devoted to the recent article about neurotic religiosity.
But, if you omit the superstition and look at what is happening impartially, fairly easy to understand that any development in life without mistakes does not happen. We call them failures, lose heart, fear them as a curse, when in fact it is an error gives the juiciest fruit of personal development in life. To make mistakes – it’s not just fine, as well as natural, like everything else in nature.
Valuable experience does not come from lifeless theories, but from actual practice. Bugs is the very real experience that vividly clearly indicates just what exactly here and now it is advisable to pay more attention to operate effectively. Errors – is a worthy lesson fee, which they also presented.
