This is a tragedy of our time-the millions of young people who grow up without parents. In Eastern Europe, thousands of people have been orphaned by the war. In Africa, the AIDS epidemic has resulted in similar disasters. Many children are abandoned simply by their parents. Families were separated from parents because of war or natural disaster.
Situations like this are common even in Bible times. For example, the plight of orphans repeatedly referred to in the Bible. (Psalm 94: 6; Malachi 3: 5) War and other tragic circumstances also divide families at that time. For example, the Bible tells about a girl who separated from his parents when he was taken by the mob Aram.-2 King 5: 2.
Perhaps you are among the millions of young people who also have to live without parents. If so, you know exactly how such a heart wrenching situation. Why does this happen to you
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No matter how difficult it is to grow without parents, it does not mean that you will be the one that failed. With the help and support, you can not only survive but also to grow prosperous. Perhaps this seems hard to believe, especially if you’re hit by grief and heartache. However, realize that such feelings are reasonable and you do not need to be tormented by it without end. We read in Ecclesiastes 7: 2, 3, “go to the house of mourning than to go to a house party. Sorrow is better than laughter, because a sad face for the heart. “Yes, weeping and grieving is a normal and healthy when there is a terrible tragedy. Perhaps no use also expressed themselves to clear-headed best friend or members of the congregation were overcooked and discuss the heartache you’re feeling.
Indeed, you may be tempted to stay away and seclusion. However, Proverbs 18: 1 warns, “People who are alone, looking for his desire, his anger exploded against every consideration.” It’s better if you ask for help from someone who is kind and understanding. Proverbs 12:25 says, “A concern in the hearts of people bent, but a kind word encouraging him.” You can get “the good word” only if you tell someone about the “worries” you.
Who can you talk to? Seek help in the Christian congregation. Jesus promised that there you can find the ‘brothers or sisters or mother’ who will love and care for you. (Mark 10:30) Joaquín recalled, “Associating with Christian brethren made me look at life in a different way. Regularly present in association certainly made me more love Jehovah and want to serve Him. Mature brothers provide spiritual help and advice to my family. Now, some of my siblings is a full-time minister
As long as we are under the control of our parents, then it means we are still included in the category of people who are not independent. Either unmarried or married together can be said is not independent if too much dependent on the parents. Living independently is something that requires physical and mental readiness. Sooner or later we will be faced with an independent life, because our parents would come back to Him (unless we are first called God). People who force themselves to live independently could experience mental stress because there are many things to be done well while living independently, Will be much greater if the burden beyond themselves, namely children and wives for those who are married. Problem after problem will come and go all of the coloring of life require the completion of a good and wise.
Therefore independence must be learned and understood well before the actual live an independent life. Do we want to live independently simply because bandwagon, want to look cool, want to get praise, want to be free from parental rules, and so forth. Live independently because it was convinced ready able to run it with patience and responsibility. Learn from various sources on how the independent life. Do not get back to a parent’s lap when unable to do so. or the women do not have to do the steps above, but can be instantly live independently if the parents had married her off to a man who established and independent. To start an independent life we must show that we are able do it to parents or guardians who have been raising and guiding us unconditionally. Attitude childish, spoiled, lazy, ignorant, stubborn, and so will make sure that his parents are not ready to enter the life of self-abusive. As an independent life, one has to be a good son to his parents. Obligations of a child to his parents are keeping, caring and loving parents no matter what happens. A child must be diligent relationship to parents and other extended family. Does not rule out the possibility of our parents can become weak and be people who are not self-sufficient, so we must help them in full as when we had not yet independent
